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Wednesday, September 27, 2006

1 Fall And Many Lessons Learnt

On 9th Sep 2006 at 10.00 am, while cycling along Sembawang Drive, I hit the kerb and fell down from the bicycle. My left knee hit the concrete pavement and my head hit the grass patch. When my head hit the ground, I thought that was the end…..it would be serious. To my amazement, I felt a force holding my head and that the landing wasn’t that serious. I got abrasions on my face and head but unfortunately, the left knee was fractured and I could see the bone went in causing a depression.

My church friends who were behind me saw what happened and were shocked. Victor then called for an ambulance. I placed my hand on the injured knee and whispered a prayer to God. Next, I SMS my family members and colleague telling them of the accident and asking them not to worry.

The ambulance came shortly, and I was sent to the A&E department, Tan Tock Seng Hospital. Some waiting before the nurse enquired about my injury and wheeled me to the Observation Room. Subsequently an X-ray was done on me and confirmed that my left knee was fractured and that I needed an operation. I was admitted immediately and the operation was done on Tues, 12th Sep and I was discharged on Thurs, 14th Sep 2006 and given a month of hospitalization leave.

That was the first time I stayed in the Hospital and operation done on me. I have learnt many lessons during my stay:

1. I realized that life is a precious gift from God. One moment we are here and the next moment we may be gone. How close to death if my head hit the concrete pavement. I thank God for his mercy and grace in preserving my life. Although, I suffered pains from the wound and the numerous injections, I now realized and identified with those who are suffering from chronic diseases and those who are terminally ill. Each day must have been a struggle for them.

2. I learnt that operation could be a “scary thing”. Even as they wheeled you to the operation room and asked you several times about your name and NRIC No, it seemed that it might be your last call. I was unsure whether the operation was successful nor would I know for sure whether I could wake up. The moment before they knocked you out with “gas” was most frightening. I prayed to God to allow me to experience a “pleasant dream” during my operation. The next moment I woke up, I was on my way back to the ward. I had no dream whatsoever…..perhaps this was the “most pleasant” dream from God.

3. I learnt to appreciate the professionalism and sacrifices of the nurses and doctors. I thank them for their dedication and love for the patients. A profession that is often neglected and taken for granted.

4. I learnt that most patients would yearn for their friends and relatives to visit them. Ironically, they do not wish to “trouble anyone”, yet the visitations could mean a lot to the patients. The worst part that I experienced in the nights and wee hours of the morning….there was such a sense of loneliness…..as in not being with your loved ones.


5. I learnt that human being are inter-dependent. The care given from you loved ones, friends and colleagues are so crucial in moment like these. I was totally “immobile” and needed the nurses to serve me. I was helpless and dependent.

6. I learnt that the process of recovering required determination, discipline and will-power. I have to undergo a series of rehabilitation exercises and learn to walk again. That wasn’t easy as each exertion will cause pain.

7. I learnt that I have indirectly affected my colleagues and superiors as they would have to cover my duties on top of their own work. That’s really called for understanding and team work.

And the list could go on……..

Saturday, September 02, 2006

Characteristics of A Servant Leader (Part 2)

4. Loyal

The next servant characteristic is loyal. Loyalty means that you have an undivided heart. Only the loyal servant is truly dependable. Loyalty is indispensable for a servant. Loyalty is exclusive. It says, “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord (Josh 24:15). God demands loyalty. God is jealous for He is absolute. Lordship, by definition, cannot be partial.

Loyalty frees God to promote you within Kingdom work. In Genesis 37_41, Joseph was betrayed by his brothers, Potiphar’s wife and the cupbearer, yet he remained faithful to God. Because of his loyalty, God was free to promote Joseph. Joseph became the prime minister of Egypt.

Jesus was loyal. His loyalty to the Father is seen in the dedication of His life to the Father’s will Jesus was loyal to His disciples. In His great High Priestly prayer, Jesus said to the Father, “While I was with them in the world, I kept them in thy name (John 17:12). Jesus was loyal to death on the cross.

5. Faithful

The fifth servant characteristic is faithful (1 Cor 4:1-2). Through Moses, God commanded His people to be faithful: “Thou shall fear the Lord they God; him shall thou serve and to him shall thou cleave (Deut. 10:20). Faithfulness reflects the fidelity of a God who says, “I will never break my covenant with you” (Judg. 2:1). Faithfulness is reflected in statements like: “We must obey God rather than men”. Jesus praised the faithful servants in His parables.

Faithfulness frees God to expand your ministry. The five-talent man and the two-talent man were “faithful with a few things” and so the master put them “in charge of many things”. God rewards trustworthiness with greater trust.

Jesus was faithful. He was faithful to the Father, even to death. Jesus also was faithful to His disciples. “Having loved His own who were in the world. He loved them to the end” Jesus continues to be faithful as our High Priest. He is “with you always, even to the end of the age”

6. Watchful

The sixth servant characteristic is watchful. The emphasis is both on alertness and being prepared for the master’s return. Watchfulness indicates an attitude toward the master. Watchful means you want to know what God says or what He wants you to do. In Jesus’ parables, good servants spent much time waiting They were expected to be alert at all times. Such watchfulness was what made them good servants rather than wicked servants.

The quality of watchfulness proves whether you are God’s watchman. Paul wrote to the Thessalonians, “You are all sons of light and sons of day. We are neither of night nor of darkness; so then let us not sleep as others do, but let us be alert and sober.

Watchfulness frees the Lord to speak. Habakkuk demonstrated the watchman spirit. “I will stand on my guard post…..I will keep watch to see what He will speak to me”. God is not likely to speak to servants who are not watchful.

Jesus was watchful. His eve was always on the Father to know the Father’s direction. “Truly, truly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, unless it is something He sees the Father doing; for whatever the Father does, these things the Son also does in like manner. Christ always depended on direction from the Father. Jesus spent the night in prayer before He chose His disciples. A watchful servant remains alert to the Master.

Saturday, August 12, 2006

Characteristics Of A Servant Leader

God’s first desire for your servant is your character. Jesus said,” The disciple is not above his master, nor the servant above his lord. It is enough for the disciple that he be as his master, and the servant as his lord”. (Matt 10:24-25) Your character is far more important than what you do.

1. Humble

The fundamental servant characteristic is humble (Act 20:19). The servant must be humble before God in order to obey God, and must be humble before others to fit in with his works of service. Humble persons do not seek recognition for their work. They would rather advance the Kingdom than look good to others and see their work as part of a bigger picture.

Humility frees God to manifest Himself. Jesus was humble. Jesus’ friends were lowly, common people. He did not normally cultivate close relationships with influential people, although Jesus did not turn them away.

2. Obedient

The second servant characteristic is obedient. Obedience is an attitude which draws no limits on what the Master can order. True obedience is instant, not delayed. At times we need to question the voices that seem to speak to us or to give us commands. Once God’s will is known, the obedient servant does not question. “ To obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed than the fat of rams” (! Sam 15:22).

Obedience frees God to act in mighty ways. Gideon obeyed promptly when God told him to reduce his army of 32,000 to 300 (Judg. 7:2-7). The defeat of the Midianites was a great victory. God may require strange things as He did of Joshua at the battle of Jericho. (Josh 6:1-20). God’s grand intentions can be realized only when we are obedient.

Jesus was obedient. Jesus’ obedience was manifest throughout His life.

3. Willing.

The third servant characteristic is willing. Our service must be whole-hearted. Our behavior often depends on our feelings rather than our will. Feelings often are confusing. Only the will can be single-minded. Only the will can override our feelings. Continuing obedience cannot be a result of feelings, but of the will. Even when feelings are out of control, you can give you will to God. You are to do the will of God with “singleness of your heart” (Eph 6:5)

The will can exist in one of the three ways: weak-willed, strong-willed (self-willed) or God-willed. To be God-willed , a person identifies his will with God’s. Weak-willed persons too easily submit the will to others. Strong-willed persons are independent of God.

Willingness frees God to reward divinely. You are to obey with all your heart; “knowing that from the Lord, you will receive the reward of the inheritance” (Col 3:24)

Jesus was willing. The Father’s will was Jesus’ will. In the greatest trial of His life, Jesus remained consistent in seeking the Father’s will. “Thy will be done” (Matt 26:42)